The Pain of Love

When All Your Friends Disappears

Love is a concortion to the disturbed heart and a remorse for those in a romantic quagmire.Admittedly love is so sweet yet love is also more painful and hurting when you have really invested in and done a lot to build the relationship,when you do look straight and stay forecast at what you have got while a little misunderstanding or a silly mistake has the power or eroding and bringing down the Labours of Love.On the Quest Of Love there is the realization that love requires a lot of sacrifice and self-denial sometimes you give it your all-your very best depending on The Choice Of Love.You are building on the understanding that love requires a commitment and a desire to let go other things that could pose a challenge to the status quo.Your attitude to this love is that love requires risk-taking free will attitude and when all these have been done and the emptiness solicited by the love triangle is what one gets,then the tribulation of love and romantic quagmire sets in. You realize its hollowness-Its pain.You feel like you were chasing the wind and the Whispers of Hatred become louder than the Echoes of love Read The Echoes of Hatred and see what I mean

When there has been The Romantic Submission Moment with the crossing of a social front where one considers oneself a winner and a participant in the Game of Romance only to realize the solitude of being dumped and given the polite request of giving a break then the bitterness of what would otherwise be a presumptive naked truth then the better pills of love begin to be digested in the heart.Often one heart bleeds in the pain of loving the unlovable at the moment and duration of place.

In a Love Triangle,the pain of loving somebody who loves somebody else is so great and yet so sharp and double-edged that it cuts and  chops into pieces both the heart and the soul of the affected.The Mind As An Object of Love suffers a great deal This is so great when you realize that there are or come face to face with the skeletons in the closet.One is left with a bleeding heart and a limping physique that one feels cheated and abandoned.You feel cheated and used like an old dry bone which has been licked and licked and shined on and rained on until no dog is interested in.No doubt you feel helpless like a slave being auctioned.You feel like a pauper and a servant in the reigning Royal Kingdom of Love with what you thought was the King or Queen of your heart having signed in somebody else' heart.You resign to the hands of the unknown fate and wait for the dark moment hoping that the ray of beginning afresh will dawn to give you a new lease of life to find a new solace solace.

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There comes a time when one is torn between the desire to achieve love and the disillusionment that there are certain limits to this and the rejection that would later accompany this-Somebody digitally referred to this as sexual harassment.The greatest mess is when one uses unrestrained generosity to break through the barriers in the name of support, and once trust sets in unrealistic demands sets in and when there is a pillar of doubt or failure to meet the demand then you are dropped like a hot potato and deserted for those whose love relationship have accrued benefits.It is always good to wait until things relax.This way you can always provide others with great understanding and patience.Otherwise it is always the innocent who are mistaken.

Perhaps one would ask what could be these feelings of pain.Realistically,the feeling of lose,the feeling of inadequacy,the feeling of uselessness and the feeling of abandonment are the signs and symptoms of the Pain of Love.
Somehow the realities of the choice of Love sets in as your eyes open up after the the episode