Romantic Optimism

 An article by Vincent Oduor Odhiambo

(Timology Consultant and Father of modern Timology)

Introduction

To love sometimes means love requires optimism yet being pessimistic is also an alternative yet I must admit that it is romantically healthy to make your days happier and longer,romantic life meaningful and challenging and days where  easy laughter follows you everywhere you go as couples and in everything you do and touch together and accomplish as a unit. Since you may be cracking little jokes together over trivials and meanings or cracking yourselves up over nothings and things at all when you are with your partner, you should realize it's a good fun  and great for those around you, too This is Romantic Optimism congruent to Good times for all!Watch out for this great article coming

 Romantic Optimism

Thinking and valuing oneself positively sometimes is a key contributor to satisfaction in life. Those who stay focused almost to a great magnitude find peace with the environment due to some kind of self understanding as they get the contentment and do not compare themselves with others. Those whose tendencies are to look at the important others often become cynical about life and love as they feign affection with the existence as a result of the sideshows and reflection on and with the important others. 

With reference to one of my Social Networks ‘‘Silence is Gold’’ whose question was and I paraphrase

‘‘life is a walk with many side shows, the question is, do you stay focused to the goal or to the side shows’’ 

I am attempting to initiate the discussion on the same under the title Romantic Optimism. Take Romantic optimism to mean life satisfaction and self affiliation to the ladder of success. This comes about due to being focussed on the set goal of success.

 Before you duel on being focussed or not first define the social set up where you are an active player. Define the life situation and the influence of time on the situation then appraise the entities and the components of the environment as defined by The Time-Environment Interaction Theory. Bring to the surface the understanding of being focussed, what the focus and attention is all about and what the important others are in the thoroughfare of life. My advice is you don't need to do things you are not capable of just because of others in the sideshow in order to please the rest of others at the expense of the important others in the side show but you have to remain focussed on the journey and task ahead. Reflecting on other opinion many rays shine a lot of truth on this. 

According to Seneca "It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor.!" Craving for more here means your divided attention and turning to the sideshows since you are craving for more as a sign of lustfulness as one feels inadequate and insufficient.

After all According to one of my followers, you are the director of your own life, the writer of your own story and the star of your reality and destiny Remember there comes a time in life when ones inner life is quite dramatic right from the situational circumstances and realities, especially where speed and success are factors-- and other situations where one might want to sequester oneself away somewhere for a while to watch the event of life.

All these unfold to the realities of the situation and the destiny of life. At this moment one can learn a lot about oneself if one takes the time and remain focussed on the goal. Here the sideshows will only be precursors to conflict and frustrations and attention divertors.So it is important to be focussed to the goal and follow your heart. PAT PAT’s reflection is that “Happiness is not something you find, it’s something you create…”  REMEMBER ‘‘The golden rule to happiness in life and satisfaction in Romance is to Follow your heart and do what your heart desires” Click on the link below for the pdf document https://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&pid=explorer&chrome=true&srcid=0B42P3eacNDi1OTY5ZWM1MmEtNGNmNi00YTNiLWI4OGItMjhhNmFjODNiNTg2&hl=en_GB