Saturday 5 February 2011

The Pillars of Love

"Attitude has been one of the greatest Pillars of Love"
The attitude formed and sustained towards a partner is usually a souvenir item in the heart and mind of the lover and the beloved.Just as one of the Gurus of love observed in one of his love quotes
"I am not Beautiful because I am but I am beautiful because You love me"
 The above quote justifies the one which retort that "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"Just like a great house of architectural prowess,there are certain foundations that a great Love is laid.For a great love relationship (timologyvok.blogspot.com/2011/05/great-relationship.html)Take a cue from this love quote
"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else.But Forgiveness is not lost on deaf and angry ears. It will find it's way in a wounded heart ready to embrace second chances."
This therefore means that forgiveness is one of the Pillars of Love.
Smile is another Pillar of Love.When you smile you stretch your life expectancy and aging an ejghth of its longevity.Just imagine exercising the eighteen muscle in your face to play the magic of staying young and living longer in love.
The most beautiful thing in the world is a smile After a stressful day I was surfing my web blog and came across this poem that was posted on my account by one of the followers on The Most Beautiful Thing in the World-A Smile.I felt like sharing with you this verbatim-''Most beautiful thing in the world is a smile that make their roads amid tears The key to the hearts is a smile and the life force of reason.Smile is a language that does not need to be translated.Lose your days, that one who did not smile extended Life has taught me that smile at a time when others are waiting for me to cry..If you stop the sadness in your way once Valfarah times stand in your way.If your friend, he smiled that reminds you why and cried if it is your duty that you are looking for a reason.Smile is a passport to the hearts.That which does not improve the smile should not open the shop
Where as this would sound like a love triangle (http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/20.../0../love-triangle.html) It is important to make a reflection on some of the issues in question to throw light on the pillars of love.What are the pillars in which our love is build? What could be the foundations that provide  a solid base for growth and construction of a relationship?What are the building units that cement a relationship? Once a relationship has been established,then what are the tools of love responsible for the maintainance of this entity? How do we harvest the fruits of a love relationship to help keep it fresh and anew as ever before.
Friends,followers,collaborators and networkings,I know you have answers and explanation and given a platform of opportunity to discuss this,I believe you will be able to offer sterling suggestions and alternatives to this.However my specific question for discussion is in the lead question, "What are the foundations in which your love life is build? This gives a titbit to the Pillars of Love.
One very important Pillar of Love is ability to "Discover" Discovery should be made in terms of the nature of love,whether Filial Love or Physical Love,Social Love or Romantic Love...
Then the direction of this love is very important and shapes the destiny of a relationship.So Destiny is the next important Pillar of Love..
Fate becomes the third pillar of love as one is bound to follow the desires of the heart and where it takes one to....
Trust is the next pillar of love ..when taken from the filial and social perspective of love,then trust takes second stage...
Love is like a garment and a clothe being worn to indicate honour and appreciation Love takes pride in the suitor and wears it about wherever it goes.The next pillar is being able to recognize the Face Of Love ( http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2011/04/faces-of-love.html )
Where would you place such days as Valentine's day,Feasting days like Easter, Christmas,or New Year day?What would you consider strong pillars of love.What would be your strongest considerations for love building blocks? One of my important pillars of love as asserted by Sara-freder and is my pillar number one is to try to Discover your Love destiny.
Have a good evening.Won't you!



5 comments:

  1. One of the Pillars of love is self Identity of our sweet, romantic side usually out in force at certain moments. which should help us to find when our great energy is perfect so as to allow us let others feel special about us, when we focus on our sweeties or focus our energy on getting someone to see how we feel about them.

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  2. What good thing could ever happen to one other than falling in love!Tell me the difference between love and infatuation.Have you ever experienced this?Share with others your experiences.

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  3. I would say, the strongest pillar of love is love itself. If two people love each other, everything else will somehow fall into place. If you love someone you respect them, you treat them right, and you'll solve all your issues amicably.Infatuation wears off after some time, but love grows stronger with time. Unfortunately we encounter infatuation more than love, so we should set and learn the rules of infatuation. Only then can we avoid making grave mistakes in the name of love.

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  4. How about TRUST? I intend to think trust takes the centre stage and is one of the strongest pillars of love.I would say that it is important to define your perspective of love.From the romantic perspective love will play a role but looked at from the filial or social perspective,trust would overide.What do you say?

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  5. I would takeyou to the article the factor of time in love in the blog Also try to look at the article How do I know that I am falling in love so as to set the rules right on what is the difference between love and infatuation.This is a blog which is very romantic and very rich foe romantic discussion.Pick an article and synthesize for your satisfaction.Well, for respect to set in first comes the Romantic Submission Moment which sets in motion all the feelings,instincts,desires and passions that go with these.I still feel TRUST is the ISSUE.

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