The Unconditional Love

Take anything desired from The Cup of Love-It is free Choice 

A lot of discussion has taken place with a lot of water having gone under the bridge on the word Love in terms of What is Love,When Do We talk about True Love and many more articles on love and more recently on the Choice of Love.Whatever is your take on this I wish to indicate that Real Love sometimes may mean nothing to the whole world but when you get it your whole world will mean Love.This is the departure where Unconditional Love sets in.
The Love Guru has a very special way of giving the quotes of Love,where as others use lyrics to express the feeling of Love.Here in my very special commitment I use words to describe the same feelings in a way I believe will touch the hearts of many for those who will dare to be patient enough and read them.My personal Concept of Love is that

"Love is a deep conviction and a personal commitment to social feelings and desires,passions and aspirations of the heart and a pursuit to care and having a sense of belonging in order to secure appreciation and comfort"

From the article The Quest for Love,

Love is a feeling of warmth, kindness, fondness and affections towards tender devotions of the opposite sex or the other partner as would be seen in three very unique and distinctive perspectives: The Filial Perspective (Family),The Social Perspective (Social Love),and The  Romantic Perspective (Intimate Love) 

The three perspective are understood to be quite interactive to each other and sometimes,not as a rule, changes form from one perspective to another perspective.The salient question here therefore is, when does Intimate Love change to a Filial Love?This happens when couples that have romantically submitted and consumed their love unconditionally benefits from the product of their union (conception) and are blessed with the fruits of love (Child or Children) This is point where Filial Love takes over and romantic love ceases or ducks to the background where it lies dormant to be rekindled when it is true love.http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2012/04/when-it-is-true-love.html 

Love  is a feeling or a delight or a desire that a person has. Love is more intimate and touches the heart and involves enjoyment by both parties involved. Love is that activity given for the pleasure of giving and not receiving back and not for its stake. Love is laboured for and labourer enjoys doing what she or he is doing for the sake of the loved one and remains hard-put even to the outside pressures, challenges or influence hence the saying, love is blind or love knows no cultural barrier. Love means doing things for the sake of your sweetheart all in the name of love. So love is an affiliated feeling that surpasses intuition and reasoning and is a mental process.

Donna Summer a once soul singer-turn-gospel composed a song on "Unconditional Love"I just wish you could get the lyrics to the song to supplement this idea..."Give me Your Unconditional Love...

"Love is an aspiration and inspiration from a loving Heart"

I wish to invoke the feeling here that for the Prince of love (one who exercises love and provides the love) to reign in ones heart then we need to provide undivided attention and loyalty and even take the pains of sacrifice the comfort of the partner if that would be desired,done in good faith devoid of conditions and procedures.I wish to quote from the love guru who once said that

 "Your prince of love will one day come.He may not ride a white horse or live in a big castle but he will love you and only you and you can still look forward to a moment of fun"

From the above argument I therefore advance the argument of Unconditional Love that this can only be true following the deep conviction and personal commitments to the desires of the heart with everything else taking the back-stage.This is because of the perception that "Love is an aspiration and inspiration from a loving Heart".The result will be to take one the way he/she is without giving up on the one you can not go a day without thinking about.
Perhaps it is at this point in time that one would say that Love is blind as it would only cherish what it deems desirable after going through The Romantic Submission Moment  three stage Cycle of Falling in Love.A good friend once challenged me to a question

"Wow!Let me ask you a personal question,you know so much about love why aren't you in love?" My response was "I am writing a complete article on my belief on unconditional love and why I have not come-by it" after promising to answer her later by directing her to the notion of Unconditional Love she posed the question "How do you identify unconditional love" Here my answer was that it lies in the Choice of Love,its expectations that go with it and the demands attached

So you identify Unconditional Love when you see sacrifice and deep personal commitment irrespective of the status quo,when you see deep devotion tenderness and undivided attention.When there is constant concern and unwavering care.you take a cue of the....
Unconditional Love is the kind of love that will not desire to change or reshape the character of the partner but will appreciate the intimate uniqueness and physical difference seen and found on the other partner as you cross the Social Front to submit to the whims of love.This love will always appreciate the physical strength and weaknesses,appreciate the desires and feelings of one another.It will cherish the inadequacies and celebrate the successes gathered together while rewarding the efforts of appreciation towards one another.
Many times people have always invested in what they believed could be love made in heaven only to find themselves in the limbo of condemnation.This is because of the jargon-"What you see is not what you expected".There is usually very high expectation from the one you love or even to the extent of assigning rules and procedures with well defined character and moral expectations.There is usually the tendency to re-shape your conception of the would be partner or the new found partner to the illusion of  I-wish-I-knew kind of attitude because of the conditions attached to the love. 

From the previous article on The Choice of Love. This should be based on the fact that people are unique in their choices

"Do not try to make me be perfect but appreciate me the way I am"

I wish to indicate man's love cannot be satisfied by beauty alone,or by material things and pushy-flashy aspirations in life but through appreciating that one is beautiful or handsome because of the feelings you have attached to that which you see and get from their relationship.
After a lot of soul searching and deep meditation indicate and reveal that Love is like a home which to a lover and a loved one is a place for a retreat where one can mellow out with dear hearts and the gentle partner,pleasantly removed from the dilemma of the Universe."Oh!Love Sweet Love! How I cherish what will be our Sojourn together"
If I may share with you an experience.I had a friend who really believed in investing in love to sustain what he believed was good for his passion.So much so that he could go to the extent of sending free gift to  that his supposed lover would take advantage of,revel and swim in the spirit of offer and take to the fill and disappear.He had been a victim of con women,in fact four times in a row.