Monday, 28 March 2011

The Sojourn of love

Photos of Bamburi Beach Hotel, Mombasa
Love sometimes proves to have many faces and at times is so sweet that sometimes it calls for a sacrifice and an escape to the outer private seclusion out there in the world.While romancing is admittedly having many tidbits,cycles ebbs and tides,managements of these may be quite challenging and of course a subject of discussion or debate whichever way is your standpoint.One thing which should be quite certain is certain is that these tidbits,cycles,ebbs and tides associated with love breed nurtures so many Faces Of Love.
Out of these many faces of love,I am building an argument on the face projected by hollowness and please join me in the discussion if you please.wish to comment on a situation where a lover is swayed by the ebbs and tides and is so low and down that he or she feels so much less and down in spirit that he finds love and life hollow and meaningless. He is therefore bogged down with a feeling of betrayal, and a feeling of uselessness, a feeling of desertion, a feeling of absconding and a feeling of meaninglessness.Here one is at a loss and gets such a feeling that a bird whose nest, nestle and brood has been destroyed by a fowler gone and never to be seen again would have-The feeling that love has escaped in the air. The feeling of emptiness at times is so great and so hollow that it makes the victim behaves and wears the face of dejection as loving in its latest facial appearance is like chasing the wind.
Out of many perspectives that you may look at it, I wish to argue for the cycle of love associated with a feeling of betrayal This might be a betrayal per see but the other face projected when love is forced to swing into the face of freedom, the face of free choice that it escapes the captivating and territorial commands of the other partner. To a socially outgoing partner with a lone ranger, then this is where the mistake begins to be seen and regrets ensue.
There is this face of love when you feel somewhat out of touch with your romantic element socially and when all the elements of existence and other things tend to appear to betray your course of existence you become so low in spirit that you feel like escaping romantically to the sea of bliss. This is Romantic Quagmire and a moment of romantic soul searching-- but it's not just your own energy wreaking havoc.
While being alone might be the best portion, for those still with some hopes of rekindling hopes in life, I wish to reiterate that at this moment you need somebody to synchronize and share out with, to give the emerging negatives their meanings in life. To remind you of and nurture your latent potential strength that exists along the negatives. To give life and love a new lease of life and meanings in existence. To celebrate your successes to remove emptiness while cherishing ones failures. To make you forget your perils and evils so as to synchronize the adversity of love in order to diversify its feelings.
It advisable never to create room for loneliness in this situation. One can never confide to himself. It takes two to get out for synchronization, just as it takes two to get back into the same groove and game. It takes two to tango and it takes two to resolve-This has the soothing effect and the calming moment of the conflicting situation.
When you miss the chance of the great re-union with your supposedly better human being you have always imagined to be your half, then seek the company and redress of either a friend, a relative or a family member or somebody you are so close to that will not throw you into another bliss. Remember you do not need another dose of Romantic Bliss. Get a perfect freedom for a soothing moment. The perfectness of this pair is what I call romantic break-evening.
This might sound so philosophical, yet so necessary that it cannot be ignored. When you are low in spirit, artistically and socially, get a refreshing environment, a soothing and a quieter environment, a healing corner and get a fresh breath of love Learn from every and any item that nature presents in that environment.
Romanticize every moment and situation you find yourself into and make meaning of your sojourn. Get the best out of your sojourn. The video shots of the funniest moment and the allure of music in the background might be meaningless but will count. You will miss the sight and aroma of the foods served around. The snapshots of the adjoining culture, the nature and its beauty, the constructions and arrangement in the compound and even the décor will count one day when it will shade a lot of meaning in your love life. Those little souvenir article will be refreshing and quite rewarding to you after the sojourn later thereafter.
Be a willing learner and learn out of every situation. Do not fret and be negative of your romantic sojourn. At least there is something little to learn about it if you think positive So do not forget to pick an item however small or useless it might appear. It might be your talisman one day. Remember, memories will be made of those little silly things that lovers do or should do have done or missed to do.
This is the essence of Romantic Escape. The right thing for one to do, when this happens, is to live and let live, get self confidence, self reflection self worth, and self assurance and gather the necessary courage to face the inevitable realities that has come with the situation. Here, you need to if you find this necessary and if you can afford, to escape to a quieter, more serene and private suburban environment where natural element-The soothing cool mountain air or sea-breeze, the welcoming glitter of white sand, the tantalizing whistling birds the serene beautiful landscape around with the diverse culture of the adjoining inhabitants as well as the healing twinkles of the stars -will administer their anesthesia.
The overall result is to make one relax and relieve the tension emanating from the situational grief. A swim in the rough salty beaches or smooth fresh swimming pool should do the trick. Lessons from Martin Luther King reveal that the ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenges and controversies.So when I reflect on this, I would say that the ultimate strength of love s not the challenges of love one encounters in moments of Romantic Submission but how one handles the challenges and conflicting situations. This is the time for true lovers to stand up and renew the degenerating love escapade.
Love is an entity that exists and must continue in the heart of the holder as long as existence is guaranteed and that is why it fits so well in timology. Love must be borne, love needs care and nurturing, love needs attention and nourishment. Love has many faces and facets to be recognized,nourished,cherished and celebrated.This is where the sojourn of love comes in. When everything is said and done, take the great lesson from David Schuler that TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO.
REMEMBER For a Peaceful Humanity-We need Understanding, Change and Co-operation

The Love Triangle

Photos of Bamburi Beach Hotel, Mombasa
This photo of Bamburi Beach Hotel is courtesy of TripAdvisor
Imagine a situation where you are in love with A,A is in love with B and does not realize this.B is in love with C while C is in love with A and none of them seems to be conscious of the feelings and are madly craving for their affinity as their hearts directs them to that.....

Stuck On Love

Photos of Bamburi Beach Hotel, Mombasa
Stuck On You.These are the lyrics of love.Listen to these though the link http://youtu.be/FjwXsfmzwys

The Love Triangle

Photos of Bamburi Beach Hotel, Mombasa
The Love Triangle
Deep inside the palace there could exist an admirer that you do not click or guess his feelings towards you yet you could be so mad with another who has opposite feelings to yours.Just Imagine! 
Mombasa Photos
This photo of Mombasa is courtesy of TripAdvisor
One of the big Five on the trail.Just have a sample of what we have in Kenya.
Photos of Bamburi Beach Hotel, Mombasa
This photo of Bamburi Beach Hotel is courtesy of TripAdvisor

A TIMOLOGY CONFERENCE ON BEACH RESORT

This Sea faring is just a sample of what is available for fun loving creatures on the destiny of time.For your enjoyment just discover what a labour of fun time can prove!Come for the Holiday!!!!

Sunday, 27 March 2011

This week’s thought - Goals!

This week’s thought -Goals!
As I was BROWSING in the cool of the sunday,I found this post on my inbox and I felt I  should share this with you Take a look at this "Crystallize your goals.Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline.Then,with supreme confidence,determination and disregard for obstacles and other people's criticisms, carry out your plan." - Paul Meyer.

Wednesday, 16 March 2011

The Role of Smile in Love


After a stressful day I was surfing my web blog and came across this poem that was posted on my account by one of the followers on The Most Beautiful Thing in the World-A Smile.I felt like sharing with you this verbatim-''Most beautiful thing in the world is a smile that make their roads amid tears The key to the hearts is a smile and the life force of reason.Smile is a language that does not need to be translated.Lose your days, that one who did not smile extended Life has taught me that smile at a time when others are waiting for me to cry..If you stop the sadness in your way once Valfarah times stand in your way.If your friend, he smiled that reminds you why and cried if it is your duty that you are looking for a reason.Smile is a passport to the hearts.That which does not improve the smile should not open the shop

Sunday, 6 March 2011

The Destiny of love

The Destiny of love
Love is a funny feeling that is experienced between two people that were strangers before but have invaded one another's life in a baffling style that it is left to operate as a being.Often this leads to Romancing the Heart and the exercise of desires,instincts,feelings and passions that are intentionally geared to show responsibilty in a loving relationship that only the suitor can understand.
When intimate love is well understood and appreciated by both partners or parties,then true love romances, leads,guides,rules and reigns our heart that it shapes the activities of our hearts and affects both lives of the involved intimately.At this point in time, The Destiny of Love takes centre stage and shapes everything in place and this is the effect that ensues when we feel a sense of belonging and ownership of our love and heart..
I must admit that when couples who are truly involved and entangled in love sets there hearts free to one another provides an avenue for unconditional love then these provides a highway of truth and avenues of trusts that drives the destiny of love to its heights and ecstasy
Despite all these,perhaps the greatest question that each and every person involved in love or loving affair as they are involved in Romancing The Heart, should ask is,''When is love Unconditional?''.   

Monday, 28 February 2011

The Everlasting Journey of the Planets

The Planet Earth just like other planets in the Universe is constantly in motion to its everlasting destiny....Read more of this from the link http://tomologyvokearthmotions.blogspot.com/

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Sunday, 27 February 2011

TIMOLOGY: The Factor of Time in Love

TIMOLOGY: The Factor of Time in Love: "The Factor of Time in Love Time has always been a fourth dimensional element of existence that complement the 3D thinkers into an array of i..."

TIMOLOGY: The Romantic Submission Moment

TIMOLOGY: The Romantic Submission Moment

The Factor of Time in Love

The Factor of Time in Love
Time has always been a fourth dimensional element of existence that complement the 3D thinkers into an array of issues of the heart both spiritually and intellectually as they exercise the power of the mind or in the contrast their feelings and instincts-a clear distinction of man from the animals since the former has the intellect and therefore interested in things of the mind as they show good reasoning power.
Man has always contrasted the animal in that the time element has always been used with gusto to his delight and enjoyment of love,which gerontologist can expressed its truth,to the maturity of its performance as contrast to the rookie character expressed by our distance relatives-the animal who only romanticize for procreation purposes.
In the article I am not trying to bring out the superiority of ROMANTIC MAN as contrasted to the ROOKIE ANIMAL or how passionate humanity is romanticizing the heart but rather to throw the question for discussion on the role of TIME in waiting or consumation of love after The Romantic Submission Moment has been attained.
There has been this issue that love hates distance or Love knows no barrier or culture among other jargon that goes with it,you can make a cue of these if time allows.Well,in this discussion my purpose and intent is to look at the role of Time in shaping the romantic path of love so prerequisite that without this romantic thoroughfare love stagnates and is immovable,nurturing the seedling that has sprouted from love,nursing the seed of love nourishing the purpose of love,pursuing the endeavours of love,guarding the cycle of love or paying the wages for the labour of love

Friday, 25 February 2011

How Do I Know I Am In Love


Sometimes it begins with Whispers and may sound like an Echo yet resonating and vibrating in the heart  the burning desires in the heart as the echoes of hatred are subdued by the whispers of love in the background:
" To be your friend was all I ever wanted;To be your lover was all I ever dreamed" 
as a Valerie Lombardo once put it in a love quote while sometimes it happens with a lot of gusto just like the speed of lightning on a rainy night to a lonely and desiring yet willing heart chasing its own desires to fall flat and submit to the desires of the heart and the feelings of love are surrendered as the cupid's arrow pierce menacingly and passionately deep into the appendages of the heart to finally get its resting place.
To my delight on this,and just before I know and realize it or understand my feelings or reactions of what this is all about I find myself hooked into it.I am in the box and do not ask me why or do you know it?Just before it  allows me to at least to get myself organized and ready for it there it is it has no place for waiting or for reasoning.Like a bad trapped by a fowler I find myself already nested and  falling heads over heals for the opposite heart. I become a novice and naive to its aspirations just like a kid running towards an absentee parent who have finally come home with lots of goodies and crunches, or rather I found myself snarled and fowled up like a trapped bird in a love escapade.No doubt,I am entangled and crashed up in what I guess is and perhaps,I know you will call love or even so you call it.At times I'm not quite certain or sure of the behaviour,intentions, movement and reactions emanating from the other end or do I figure out exactly what the purpose for such feelings that are showered towards me could be or even before I get over it as yet, some deliberate moves might be initiated to tantalize and to draw my attention to the impulses,desires,passions and feelings from this secret secret admirer who is hell-bent to get the half in me he so much perceived to complete his or hers or the missing link that one believes or being conveyed by my love tantrums and instincts.The most important and obvious and yet quite romantic issue could be and is the question "could I be able to tell in advance or somehow that love or is it infatuation as the case may be at times,is on the way coming or approaching my desires or that I will be in sharing with somebody his or her feelings as the case may be  in a moment of time his  or her feelings,moments,reactions,responses and sacrifices and embodiments?Tell me my dear readers,is it possible to see love coming?Can I predict love? If then in the first place,what was the strange thing about this that I was unable to detect that made me be involved in it,now which was not there before?Is it a feeling that  I can benchmark and outsource for its direction or achievement or is it a one-man's heart affair to be shared by a prospective partner alone?I might not know the feelings and desires  that someone could be having for or towards me,or do you have any clue to this,that would be eliciting my reaction or soliciting a unique behaviour to determine the reactions I will be displaying,I might not be conscious or aware of the leads,sentiments,reactions,offers or generosity or words of kindness and reaction sequencing that love follows.I might not be conscious of pillars of love being erected around and in my heart I may not have the ability or capacity to figure out and shape the reactions or the powers to cue out or make a guess of the titbits of love that are being indicated and expressed towards me as might be the intentions.I might not be aware that I am somebody's most important WISH AND I FRET being loathed or cherished being sought after and craved for.I may not be aware of those important silly things in me that may mean a lot to my admirer that are being sought after as they drive somebody crazy on the encounter.It is true that I might not know or be aware that someone is crazy and craves for me from love's distance point of view BUT one thing is certain-The feelings of love at times are so great that one cannot resist the temptation of saying YES-when one finally yields to the quest and pillars of love.Yet I can not be able to tell clearly or explain  if the strange feelings could mean falling in love or  is  infatuation.When the feelings of love overrides the desires of the flesh and I succumb to The Romantic Submission Moment then there marks the beginning and discerning difference between love and infatuation and will initiate a love's chain reaction and compensatory responses.At this point I make a discovery of love and discover and appreciate the sense of belonging.
It is important to get the difference between love and infatuation in order to get the answer. How do I know I am in love and not just a mere infatuation.This is the starting point for this discussion and I welcome your views share with us at least what you felt or experiences on this baffling God given gift.
Surely you social network friends and followers,collaborators and net-workers out there,tell me.
How would you then know and at what point will you decide without reasonable doubt that you are indeed in love When love and instincts  supply raw power for enhanced opportunities then there it begins to happens. When feelings and desires help you cut through red tape and attack romantic issues and matters with decisive action and resourcefulness then I begin to feel I am taking charge of my heart. There are times when couples experience sentimental moments under a common feeling of self belonging when both are  significant to each other in a matter that guarantees both to  abandon themselves to passion.This is a moment when love is biting.
Watch out for love. It could be on the way or knocking the door to your heart!Enjoy your day.

Saturday, 19 February 2011

TIMOLOGY: The Romantic Escapism

 The Romantic Escapism: "The Romantic Escapism is an article that attempts to initiate a discussion and elicit comments on this queer behaviour displayed by a loser ..."These are weird passions instincts and justification that losers display in an attempt to satisfy the lose of ones intentions for love.

Why We Suffer Lose Of Love

I had once or twice came face to face with the stack reality of the pain of love either due to having bitten more than I could chew or just a case of love's mistaken identity where I became  a victim of love gone sour andthis made me feel what it takes to experience the loss of what one loathes or  cherishes or holds dear and I succumbed to the Great Social Submission Moment as I resigned to the whims of fate.It is truly at this particular moment that I had come to the realities of the truth, '' Why We Suffer Lose Of Love''
Our earnest investment in love in anticipation of the satisfaction,comfort and a sense of belonging which is often characterized by our hope and assurance of the future is often instrumental in  making us unconscious and unaware of the uncertainties and risks we are likely to suffer in the event of social or romantic breakdown when our status quo feel or are indeed threatened in one way or the other.
Whatever the way you look at it and whichever case may be,in the Romantic Perspective dimension,one point should be made clear with all other factors held constant.The underlying principle is that, as we had the quest of love,nurtured the feelings directed to the target heart,as we laid down its pillars,as we laboured for love and finally got was truly dear to us-love,so it is on the higher probability that  we can as well as on fifty fifty basis lose it,as there was no guarantee of that love in the first instance,but due to labouring for it,we got its reward and got coalesced,immersed and submerged in its sweeping flood of both intimacies and infatuations.

On a very light note, since our existence was not a punctuation by the benefactor that your life will only be meaningful if you are stack with what you believe is the owner of your heart,what you are really craving for and ready to take the pain of sacrificing to have( biting more than you can either chew or swallow) it is in the same wavelength that should we feel threatened of the lose of this particular love,then we are bound to suffer greatly for such a lose I wish to reiterate that a friend who truly understand his or her friend and share their feelings together having been drawn together from the romantic distance will suffer the lose.If distance or age was never  a barrier before and love connected them because love is a bridge that connects far distance people to be close to each other then anything tending to seperate the two will definitely heart. 
If I may use one of my followers song update forwardrd to me,we must understand that Love Is A Bridge Between Two Hearts that finally beat as one and that it requires so much personal dedications,deep passion and unrivaled desires and sometimes a feeling that life is not life or worth living without a loved one,which according to Haemo Jamalaldin involves intimate and mutual sharing of their world where one would take the sea as the other takes the wave,one takes the sky as the other goes for the stars and when one goes for the sun the other takes the light and involves the total surrender of everything for the sake of the partner as one submits wholly and fully to the demands of love and whims of fate.That is why love hearts so much when its positon is threatened.
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Wednesday, 16 February 2011

TIMOLOGY: Setback for timology

TIMOLOGY: Setback for timology: ''To all my followers and visitors to the timology website,I wish to regret the loss of my computer with all that I have ..."This means new posts will depend so much on the patience and understanding accorded me from the cyber cafe around for information outsourcing,editing and posting.I still love you and will continue labouring for love.Have a wonderful and lovely weekend.

Setback for timology

Setback for timology
To all my followers timology networks collaborators and visitors to the timologyvok blog/website,I wish to regret the loss of my computer with all that I have laboured for to some non appreciating human kind.This means a small break of what has been quite an entertainig romantic piece until I sort out how to get another computer.For any inconvenience caused I highly regret Keep on keeping watch as I sort out myself.For now Timology has taken a break.Please bear up with me.
At times something that seems small could be quite nagging , and may end up changing the way we see things. This is the moment we need to let it go -- after all we don't mind shifts in perspective, as long as our core remains-and that is the loss of my Timologyvok machines. 

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