The Destiny of love

The Destiny of love

Love is a funny feeling that is experienced between two people that were strangers before but have invaded one another's life in a baffling style that it is left to operate as a being.Often this leads to Romancing the Heart and the exercise of desires,instincts,feelings and passions that are intentionally geared to show responsibilty in a loving relationship that only the suitor can understand.
When intimate love is well understood and appreciated by both partners or parties,then true love romances, leads,guides,rules and reigns our heart that it shapes the activities of our hearts and affects both lives of the involved intimately.At this point in time, The Destiny of Love takes centre stage and shapes everything in place and this is the effect that ensues when we feel a sense of belonging and ownership of our love and heart..
I must admit that when couples who are truly involved and entangled in love sets there hearts free to one another provides an avenue for unconditional love then these provides a highway of truth and avenues of trusts that drives the destiny of love to its heights and ecstasy
Despite all these,perhaps the greatest question that each and every person involved in love or loving affair as they are involved in Romancing The Heart, should ask is,''When is love Unconditional?''.   

The Everlasting Journey of the Planets

The Planet Earth just like other planets in the Universe is constantly in motion to its everlasting destiny....Read more of this from the link http://tomologyvokearthmotions.blogspot.com/

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TIMOLOGY: The Factor of Time in Love

TIMOLOGY: The Factor of Time in Love: "The Factor of Time in Love Time has always been a fourth dimensional element of existence that complement the 3D thinkers into an array of i..."

TIMOLOGY: The Romantic Submission Moment

TIMOLOGY: The Romantic Submission Moment

The Factor of Time in Love

The Factor of Time in Love
Time has always been a fourth dimensional element of existence that complement the 3D thinkers into an array of issues of the heart both spiritually and intellectually as they exercise the power of the mind or in the contrast their feelings and instincts-a clear distinction of man from the animals since the former has the intellect and therefore interested in things of the mind as they show good reasoning power.
Man has always contrasted the animal in that the time element has always been used with gusto to his delight and enjoyment of love,which gerontologist can expressed its truth,to the maturity of its performance as contrast to the rookie character expressed by our distance relatives-the animal who only romanticize for procreation purposes.
In the article I am not trying to bring out the superiority of ROMANTIC MAN as contrasted to the ROOKIE ANIMAL or how passionate humanity is romanticizing the heart but rather to throw the question for discussion on the role of TIME in waiting or consumation of love after The Romantic Submission Moment has been attained.
There has been this issue that love hates distance or Love knows no barrier or culture among other jargon that goes with it,you can make a cue of these if time allows.Well,in this discussion my purpose and intent is to look at the role of Time in shaping the romantic path of love so prerequisite that without this romantic thoroughfare love stagnates and is immovable,nurturing the seedling that has sprouted from love,nursing the seed of love nourishing the purpose of love,pursuing the endeavours of love,guarding the cycle of love or paying the wages for the labour of love

How Do I Know I Am In Love

Sometimes it begins with Whispers and may sound like an Echo yet resonating and vibrating in the heart  the burning desires in the heart as the echoes of hatred are subdued by the whispers of love in the background:

" To be your friend was all I ever wanted;To be your lover was all I ever dreamed" 

as a Valerie Lombardo once put it in a love quote while sometimes it happens with a lot of gusto just like the speed of lightning on a rainy night to a lonely and desiring yet willing heart chasing its own desires to fall flat and submit to the desires of the heart and the feelings of love are surrendered as the cupid's arrow pierce menacingly and passionately deep into the appendages of the heart to finally get its resting place.

To my delight on this,and just before I know and realize it or understand my feelings or reactions of what this is all about I find myself hooked into it.I am in the box and do not ask me why or do you know it?Just before it  allows me to at least to get myself organized and ready for it there it is it has no place for waiting or for reasoning.Like a bad trapped by a fowler I find myself already nested and  falling heads over heals for the opposite heart. I become a novice and naive to its aspirations just like a kid running towards an absentee parent who have finally come home with lots of goodies and crunches, or rather I found myself snarled and fowled up like a trapped bird in a love escapade.No doubt,I am entangled and crashed up in what I guess is and perhaps,I know you will call love or even so you call it.At times I'm not quite certain or sure of the behaviour,intentions, movement and reactions emanating from the other end or do I figure out exactly what the purpose for such feelings that are showered towards me could be or even before I get over it as yet, some deliberate moves might be initiated to tantalize and to draw my attention to the impulses,desires,passions and feelings from this secret secret admirer who is hell-bent to get the half in me he so much perceived to complete his or hers or the missing link that one believes or being conveyed by my love tantrums and instincts.The most important and obvious and yet quite romantic issue could be and is the question "could I be able to tell in advance or somehow that love or is it infatuation as the case may be at times,is on the way coming or approaching my desires or that I will be in sharing with somebody his or her feelings as the case may be  in a moment of time his  or her feelings,moments,reactions,responses and sacrifices and embodiments?Tell me my dear readers,is it possible to see love coming?Can I predict love? If then in the first place,what was the strange thing about this that I was unable to detect that made me be involved in it,now which was not there before?Is it a feeling that  I can benchmark and outsource for its direction or achievement or is it a one-man's heart affair to be shared by a prospective partner alone?I might not know the feelings and desires  that someone could be having for or towards me,or do you have any clue to this,that would be eliciting my reaction or soliciting a unique behaviour to determine the reactions I will be displaying,I might not be conscious or aware of the leads,sentiments,reactions,offers or generosity or words of kindness and reaction sequencing that love follows.I might not be conscious of pillars of love being erected around and in my heart I may not have the ability or capacity to figure out and shape the reactions or the powers to cue out or make a guess of the titbits of love that are being indicated and expressed towards me as might be the intentions.I might not be aware that I am somebody's most important WISH AND I FRET being loathed or cherished being sought after and craved for.I may not be aware of those important silly things in me that may mean a lot to my admirer that are being sought after as they drive somebody crazy on the encounter.It is true that I might not know or be aware that someone is crazy and craves for me from love's distance point of view BUT one thing is certain-The feelings of love at times are so great that one cannot resist the temptation of saying YES-when one finally yields to the quest and pillars of love.Yet I can not be able to tell clearly or explain  if the strange feelings could mean falling in love or  is  infatuation.When the feelings of love overrides the desires of the flesh and I succumb to The Romantic Submission Moment then there marks the beginning and discerning difference between love and infatuation and will initiate a love's chain reaction and compensatory responses.At this point I make a discovery of love and discover and appreciate the sense of belonging.

It is important to get the difference between love and infatuation in order to get the answer. How do I know I am in love and not just a mere infatuation.This is the starting point for this discussion and I welcome your views share with us at least what you felt or experiences on this baffling God given gift.

Surely you social network friends and followers,collaborators and net-workers out there,tell me.

How would you then know and at what point will you decide without reasonable doubt that you are indeed in love When love and instincts  supply raw power for enhanced opportunities then there it begins to happens. When feelings and desires help you cut through red tape and attack romantic issues and matters with decisive action and resourcefulness then I begin to feel I am taking charge of my heart. There are times when couples experience sentimental moments under a common feeling of self belonging when both are  significant to each other in a matter that guarantees both to  abandon themselves to passion.This is a moment when love is biting.

Watch out for love. It could be on the way or knocking the door to your heart!Enjoy your day.

TIMOLOGY: The Romantic Escapism

 The Romantic Escapism: "The Romantic Escapism is an article that attempts to initiate a discussion and elicit comments on this queer behaviour displayed by a loser ..."These are weird passions instincts and justification that losers display in an attempt to satisfy the lose of ones intentions for love.

Why We Suffer Lose Of Love

I had once or twice came face to face with the stack reality of the pain of love either due to having bitten more than I could chew or just a case of love's mistaken identity where I became  a victim of love gone sour andthis made me feel what it takes to experience the loss of what one loathes or  cherishes or holds dear and I succumbed to the Great Social Submission Moment as I resigned to the whims of fate.It is truly at this particular moment that I had come to the realities of the truth, '' Why We Suffer Lose Of Love''
Our earnest investment in love in anticipation of the satisfaction,comfort and a sense of belonging which is often characterized by our hope and assurance of the future is often instrumental in  making us unconscious and unaware of the uncertainties and risks we are likely to suffer in the event of social or romantic breakdown when our status quo feel or are indeed threatened in one way or the other.
Whatever the way you look at it and whichever case may be,in the Romantic Perspective dimension,one point should be made clear with all other factors held constant.The underlying principle is that, as we had the quest of love,nurtured the feelings directed to the target heart,as we laid down its pillars,as we laboured for love and finally got was truly dear to us-love,so it is on the higher probability that  we can as well as on fifty fifty basis lose it,as there was no guarantee of that love in the first instance,but due to labouring for it,we got its reward and got coalesced,immersed and submerged in its sweeping flood of both intimacies and infatuations.

On a very light note, since our existence was not a punctuation by the benefactor that your life will only be meaningful if you are stack with what you believe is the owner of your heart,what you are really craving for and ready to take the pain of sacrificing to have( biting more than you can either chew or swallow) it is in the same wavelength that should we feel threatened of the lose of this particular love,then we are bound to suffer greatly for such a lose I wish to reiterate that a friend who truly understand his or her friend and share their feelings together having been drawn together from the romantic distance will suffer the lose.If distance or age was never  a barrier before and love connected them because love is a bridge that connects far distance people to be close to each other then anything tending to seperate the two will definitely heart. 
If I may use one of my followers song update forwardrd to me,we must understand that Love Is A Bridge Between Two Hearts that finally beat as one and that it requires so much personal dedications,deep passion and unrivaled desires and sometimes a feeling that life is not life or worth living without a loved one,which according to Haemo Jamalaldin involves intimate and mutual sharing of their world where one would take the sea as the other takes the wave,one takes the sky as the other goes for the stars and when one goes for the sun the other takes the light and involves the total surrender of everything for the sake of the partner as one submits wholly and fully to the demands of love and whims of fate.That is why love hearts so much when its positon is threatened.
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TIMOLOGY: Setback for timology

TIMOLOGY: Setback for timology: ''To all my followers and visitors to the timology website,I wish to regret the loss of my computer with all that I have ..."This means new posts will depend so much on the patience and understanding accorded me from the cyber cafe around for information outsourcing,editing and posting.I still love you and will continue labouring for love.Have a wonderful and lovely weekend.

Setback for timology

Setback for timology
To all my followers timology networks collaborators and visitors to the timologyvok blog/website,I wish to regret the loss of my computer with all that I have laboured for to some non appreciating human kind.This means a small break of what has been quite an entertainig romantic piece until I sort out how to get another computer.For any inconvenience caused I highly regret Keep on keeping watch as I sort out myself.For now Timology has taken a break.Please bear up with me.
At times something that seems small could be quite nagging , and may end up changing the way we see things. This is the moment we need to let it go -- after all we don't mind shifts in perspective, as long as our core remains-and that is the loss of my Timologyvok machines. 

The Pillars of Love

"Attitude has been one of the greatest Pillars of Love"

The attitude formed and sustained towards a partner is usually a souvenir item in the heart and mind of the lover and the beloved.Just as one of the Gurus of love observed in one of his love quotes

"I am not Beautiful because I am but I am beautiful because You love me"

 The above quote justifies the one which retort that "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"Just like a great house of architectural prowess,there are certain foundations that a great Love is laid.For a great love relationship (timologyvok.blogspot.com/2011/05/great-relationship.html)Take a cue from this love quote

"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else.But Forgiveness is not lost on deaf and angry ears. It will find it's way in a wounded heart ready to embrace second chances."

This therefore means that forgiveness is one of the Pillars of Love.
Smile is another Pillar of Love.When you smile you stretch your life expectancy and aging an ejghth of its longevity.Just imagine exercising the eighteen muscle in your face to play the magic of staying young and living longer in love.
The most beautiful thing in the world is a smile After a stressful day I was surfing my web blog and came across this poem that was posted on my account by one of the followers on The Most Beautiful Thing in the World-A Smile.I felt like sharing with you this verbatim-''Most beautiful thing in the world is a smile that make their roads amid tears The key to the hearts is a smile and the life force of reason.Smile is a language that does not need to be translated.Lose your days, that one who did not smile extended Life has taught me that smile at a time when others are waiting for me to cry..If you stop the sadness in your way once Valfarah times stand in your way.If your friend, he smiled that reminds you why and cried if it is your duty that you are looking for a reason.Smile is a passport to the hearts.That which does not improve the smile should not open the shop
Where as this would sound like a love triangle (http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/20.../0../love-triangle.html) It is important to make a reflection on some of the issues in question to throw light on the pillars of love.What are the pillars in which our love is build? What could be the foundations that provide  a solid base for growth and construction of a relationship?What are the building units that cement a relationship? Once a relationship has been established,then what are the tools of love responsible for the maintainance of this entity? How do we harvest the fruits of a love relationship to help keep it fresh and anew as ever before.

Friends,followers,collaborators and networkings,I know you have answers and explanation and given a platform of opportunity to discuss this,I believe you will be able to offer sterling suggestions and alternatives to this.However my specific question for discussion is in the lead question, "What are the foundations in which your love life is build? This gives a titbit to the Pillars of Love.

One very important Pillar of Love is ability to "Discover" Discovery should be made in terms of the nature of love,whether Filial Love or Physical Love,Social Love or Romantic Love...

Then the direction of this love is very important and shapes the destiny of a relationship.So Destiny is the next important Pillar of Love..

Fate becomes the third pillar of love as one is bound to follow the desires of the heart and where it takes one to....
Trust is the next pillar of love ..when taken from the filial and social perspective of love,then trust takes second stage...
Love is like a garment and a clothe being worn to indicate honour and appreciation Love takes pride in the suitor and wears it about wherever it goes.The next pillar is being able to recognize the Face Of Love ( http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2011/04/faces-of-love.html )

Where would you place such days as Valentine's day,Feasting days like Easter, Christmas,or New Year day?What would you consider strong pillars of love.What would be your strongest considerations for love building blocks? One of my important pillars of love as asserted by Sara-freder and is my pillar number one is to try to Discover your Love destiny.

Have a good evening.Won't you!

THE GEOCLOCK

The Geoclock


What the Geoclock is

This clock is also known as the Grand clock.It is the Continuity Clock founded on the basis of the Contnuity Cycles which are the principles of continuity and the Existence's circular circular principles It is called the Geo-clock as it attempts to unravel the geographical facts and principles that have remained to many people as Myths and Mysteries of Existence


The evolution and development of the Geoclock

The understanding of the seven circular motions of the Earth is a prerequisite knowledge for the understanding of the grand clock as they are found on the same principles.It is only that where as the Perpetual Calendar is a Timological instrument that Predicts and forecasts Time the Geoclock or the Grandlock is a twin instruments that should measures and record Time into everlasting continuity.

The Principle of Construction of the Geoclock

The principles of its construction should be or otherwise based on the horological facts of the clock and watches construction which follows the basic units of Time.These are then complemented by the additional cycles and periods as revealed by the Perpetual Calendar.These are can be listed as follows in their order as microseconds,seconds,minutes,hours,days,years(periods),spirals,cycles and generations.

The associated motions as basis of its constructions

The associated motions are matched with the amount of time that this has already taken as follows.
Vibrations(trembling)-seconds(microseconds)
Sliding(dragging)-minutes
Spinning(rotations)-hours
Periodicity(revolution)-days
Spirulation
Cyculation
Generations

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TIMOLOGY: The Perpetual Calendar

TIMOLOGY: The Perpetual Calendar: "THE PERPETUAL CALENDAR-The First Timology DeviceDefinition of the Perpetual CalendarThe term perpetual refers to a never ending, going on fo..."

The Perpetual Calendar-The Continuity Table

THE PERPETUAL CALENDAR
-The First Timology Device

Definition of the Perpetual Calendar

The term perpetual refers to a never ending, going on for a long time or without stopping The  Earth as a participant in the never ending journey of existence is constantly in perpetual motion likened to a machine (The motion of a machine, if such could be invented, which would go on for ever without an external source of energy).A perpetual is continual, often repeated.

Existence is a perpetuity, that is a state of being perpetual and therefore, if time is a dimension of existence, in the space of continuity, it is must be measured or reckoned with a gadget which is in perpetuity or forever, to ensure perpetual annuity.

The term Calendar is a device that

Perpetual Calendar is a Calendar that will forever record and predict time into Continuity of space and existence to the world without an end.

Evolution of the Perpetual Calendar

This is a base-31-generator developed from Series and Sequences a mathematical insight that has brought into place the periodicity. It is one of the continuity devices that has resulted from Timology.

The structure of the Perpetual Calendar

The design and construction of the Perpetual Calendar has been developed from the Rules, Principles and Theories of the Modern Calendar. The Calendar has three main components:

(I)The Continuity Phase

(II)The Continuity Distribution (The Periodicity) Phase

(III)The Periodic phase

Developed and built in a way almost similar to the periodic table in Chemistry, The Continuity Chart has three blocks. These are The Continuity Block, The Periodic Block and The Periodicity Phase.

The Continuity Block

This block is made up of two clearly and periodically parts emerging from the Time Convergent Zone(TCZ) to Time Divergent  Zone(TDZ) all of which all of which span a complete generation of 7000 years on each phase and is made up Periods, Cycles and Spirals

The Continuity Distribution (The Periodicity) Block

This span a 12      on both sides which reflect on Time Convergent Zone(TCZ) and Time Divergent Zone(TDZ)

The  Periodicity Block

Is a made up of 7 principle periodic cycle each having 5 spreads(weeks)

Salient features of the Perpetual Calendar

The Calendar has a lot of information about the seven movements of the Earth and it has a proof from the inferences that the Earth
(I) actually rotates from East to West as is clearly indicated by the continuity cycles
(II) rotates in a clockwise direction
(III) is inclined at an angle approximately 55 degrees( to be confirmed from other literature)
(IV) in its elliptical manner is responsible for the spiral and cyclical motions it exhibits
It has a proof that the Earth is elliptical hence existence cycles equivalent to latitudes of different sizes.These are the Existence cycles whose equivalence are the Equator,the Cancer,the Capricorn the Arctic and the Antarctic cycles.
The other information depicted is that the Earth exhibits Revolution(period=1 year),Cyculates,Spirulates and Generates,all of which are completed in 7000 years.It should be borne in mind that the Earth exhibits Seven Cycular motions  being vibrations,sliding,spinning,revolutions,cyculation,spirulation and generation.
The most significant feature of the perpetual Calendar is that it uses Periodicity to focus ahead into several generations to come(a period of 7000 years) and this is the Time Divergent Zone while it also dates back to similar phenomenon back to several generations behind (Time Divergent Zone)
The Periodicity of the Perpetual Calendar is a pattern of Existence Cycles governed by the Calendar Rules and Principles of Continuity.
Finally,the Perpetual Calendar provides an insight or Space Research,Archeological-geological dating,Astrology,Meteorology,Geography among other areas.Already the study  is providing useful links to the  confirmation of the Revolution,cyculation,Spirulation and Generation.


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TIMOLOGY: Time analysis and Continuity

TIMOLOGY: Time analysis and Continuity: "TIME ANALYSIS AND CONTINUITY The Continuity of Existence and the Analysis of Time is a relatively new aspect of knowledge that is ..."

The Quest For Love

What makes a relationship? Usually for a Great Relationship to ensue in any moment of time a number of clues essential for it must take precedent.From some of the earlier post in this blog that I have discussed the issues of romance, one of them of particular interest which provides a sustained explanation is the one on a Great Relationship ( http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2011/05/great-relationship.html 

The Definition of Love                                                                                                                        

If there has been any discussion or definition of what love is then you meed to put your comments in this blog about the same The understanding of what is begins with the reflection of  and on the element of love as a doing or being. In its very basic form of understanding is a feeling.

Love is a feeling of warmth, kindness, fondness and affections towards tender devotions of the opposite sex or the other partner as would be seen in three very unique and distinctive perspectives: The Filial Perspective (Family),The Social Perspective (Social Love),and The  Romantic Perspective (Intimate Love) 

Note

The three perspective are quite interactive and sometimes changes form from one perspective to another.The salient question therefore is, when does Intimate Love change to a Filial Love? This happens when couples that have romantically submitted and consumed their love benefits from the product of their union(conception)and are blessed with the fruits of love (Child or Children) This is point where Filial Love takes over and romantic love ceases or ducks to the background where it lies dormant to be rekindled when it is true love.http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2012/04/when-it-is-true-love.html  For a better understanding of this click on the link The Unconditional Love

Accessed through speculative sources we advance the argument that:

Love  is a feeling or a delight or a desire that a person has. Love is more intimate and touches the heart and involves enjoyment by both parties involved. Love is that activity given for the pleasure of giving and not receiving back and not for its stake. Love is laboured for and labourer enjoys doing what she or he is doing for the sake of the loved one and remains hard-put even to the outside pressures, challenges or influence hence the saying, love is blind or love knows no cultural barrier. Love means doing things for the sake of your sweetheart all in the name of love. So love is an affiliated feeling that surpasses intuition and reasoning and is a mental process.

Characteristics of love                                                                                                                   

Love is an element with very unique and peculiar characteristics that relate to the hearton side and the mind on the other. Looked at as an element,studies show that as it romanticize, it exist as a separate entity as a human element that needs to be cherished,nourished and nurtured to fruition.

Love is not just something or an exaggeration but a feeling and a desire that is expressible and romanticizable  and is normally experienced cherished and celebrated and therefore is an intimate  activity to be acted out in the stage of time and in the audience of environment.The Mind therefore is its object of exercise. (http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2012/03/mind-as-object-of-love.html)Love is an entity which exists both in the mind and heart of the beholder on its own and belongs and has a sense of belonging and hates and does not tolerate sharing with a competitor and wants to be treated as a unit.Love is cyclical in nature and cycles round and round oscillate to and fro the initiator and have feelings desires and passions that are repetitive at regular intervals sometimes flat on the floor and at times high up on the ceiling depending on the excitement and elevation.Love is out-rightly sensitive and never pretends nor contends. There is an always an intimate tendency. One cannot experience false love(not possible)Love is not an intuition a feeling to be embraced It has desires or strong feelings or strong sexual attractions expressed in earnest wish(longing for or a wish)Love is usually personified and expressed while exercising its sense of beingLove has a defined boundary where it operates from and is confined within a space of romance.An element of theLove is directional has a tendency and is usually directed towards a soul or heart without which there is no experienceLove is defensive and will always fight out to protect its territory at any pain of claiming what it considers its belonging.Love is dimensional It has three unique perspectives(Filial,Social,Romantic) that are uniquely expressed depending on the perspective of the beholder.Love is selfless. Intimate love can never be self seeking but expressible towards the prospectiveLove is infectious and behaves like measles when it catches up with you old age (http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/201-/--/love-is-like-measle.html )Love if not nurtured it dies (http://timologyvok.blogspot.com/2012/04.characteristic-of-love.html

Importance of the element of love

Historically,culturally and socially,the element of love has always taken the social dimension of healing loneliness hearts in a manner quite special and unique.Biblically,the element of love is an age old instrument that has been used from time to time to sort out conflicing issues in societies or curb the threats of human  peace and happiness.

Romance

The definition of Romance.                                                                                       

Romance is the personification of love-cupid’s role in the expression of love.When the activities of love come into play for the sake true love such as:

• The giving and sending affectionate messages and greetings.                      
• Playing love ( done for the pleasure of love and not for stake)                     
• Shows that one is in love with something by doing the things that lovers do such as Kissing,Caressing,Fondling,Hugging,Smooching
• Making-love ( instances of being in love often with a physical relationship
• Writing ;love-letters(exchange of letters between persons in love and concerned with their love                                

Then romance sets in. This overall effect and build up of love is what constitutes romance (See romantic poets like Shelley, Keats as they depend persons i.e. persons who were extravagantly visionary feelings expressions etc. 

According to Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary, romance is taken to mean a real experience, especially a love affair, considered to be remarkable or worth describing. Romance is the exercise of ideas, feelings etc,that are remote from experience and real life given to a loved one.

Taken deeply, is the personification of love. it is the cupid’s activity of love. It may refer to real experience of love, especially,a love activity considered to be remarkable or worthy of description. Romance is the product or outcome of a love affair. What is experienced as a result of loving experiences

In art and literature and music, Romance may refer to a story or novel of adventure, or a love story, especially one in which the events are quite untrue or unlike real life, or a class of literature consisting of such stories. It is marked by feelings elicited to the audience rather than by intellect, preferring grandeur, passion, informal beauty, to order proportion(opposite of classic and classical piece) From the work of romantic poets like Shelley or Keats, may I infer that a person with romantic ideas, is a visionary person who knows what he is looking for in a lover and plays the cupid to win a loved one.                                                            

From these, may I infer that Romance is a form of real ideas, feelings,passions and desires that are remote from ordinary experience or real life given to love. Romance may  therefore some kind of visionary  intentions expressed and activities done while love is feelings and passions felt To this extent it is right and I justify the feeling that Romance is like a vehicle which a lover uses to reach the heart of the loved one.

The Quest of Love                                                                                                

It is important to start this discussion by making a highlight of certain terms to make a highlight.The term ‘‘quest’’ has a dictionary meaning of ‘search or ‘‘pursuit’’ of something.

In quest of means seeking for or trying to find. For the sake of this discussion being in quest of love means trying to find or seeking fervent feelings, desires and passions by showing hot or glowing warmth of feeling, or passionate endeavours. Also means trying to find fervent love. It is more of a feeling or a tendency or an affinity to get love.

Quest for means look for or go about in quest of. It is the actual activity of searching for something. The quest of love is analogous to romancing the heart (expression and experiences of feelings, passions or desires

In quest of love means seeking for love or trying to find love. Love is in the mind of the seeker where it is embedded.Quest of love is similar to the tendency or ability to love or being loved.It is a mental process which is exercised in the mind.

In quest for love it is taken to mean to look for or go about in quest of .This has the meaning of looking at love as a physical activity or the exercise of what the mind contains. It is the expression of love by lover or loving partners which culminates into experiencing the characteristics of love.

The quest of love is similar to reasons that people or couples have or hold for loving and seeking love.

Pertinent issues addressed in quest of love
·Sense of belonging
· For appreciation
·Satisfaction of feelings, desires and passion
· For experimentation
·For Identification
·For lustful experiences
·For inconsciountous reasons
·For romantic reasons

Pertinent issues that features in quest for love

The Cycle of Love

The Cycle of Love 
Just like other feelings and intuition that are characteristics of the human feelings.love is a cyclical elements with its ebbs and peaks worst if it makes a downward trends particularly when it  feels threatened and quite warm and appetizing when cherished and appreciated
The ebbs of feelings,desires,needs,passions usually builds,reaches a crescendo is peaked at consumation whenever submission is attained then falls to a minimum then levels off.this forms a cycle of experience and expression of love which goes round and round and never ceases to flow.
The expression of feelings, passions and desires of intimacy is usually a forward flow only suffering a temporary set back whenever love suffers distance and becomes stable and onwards when there is zero tolerance to space and physical distance but when nourished and possessed it creates harmony of purpose and romance,and it therefore becomes a continuous flow that does not come to an end-everlasting love/everlasting harmony

Timology as a Labour of Love

Timology as a Labour of Love.
Introduction
 I start this discussion by posing the question, what is love?  The discussion starts with attempted definition of love, highlighting the characteristics of love and the importance of the love element in human endeavour and finally looks at the perspectives of love.                             
In an attempt to define  love the Oxford Advanced Learners dictionary defines love as a warm, kind feeling; fondness or affectionate and tender devotion. In a very light touch without direct indications these feelings would be in form of   children (Filial),Love of adventure or passion or love of one’s country-patriotism or fanaticism (Social) and sexual desires between two affectionately intimate people of the opposite sex (Romance)                                                             
The notable characteristics of love is that Love must be fallen into( come to feel love:-Kissing,Caressing,Fondling,hugging,Smooching,Chatting,loveplay,writing loving messages and loveletters,lovematching,telling love stories, singing love songs and lovesickness, there must be feelings for and towards the loved one),Love has its Romantic activities                               
While a lot of meaning and emphasis has been and is still being given to the importance of the element of love,  it should be understood that the element of love has been an age-old prescription to loneliness among different cultures in different geographical that has persisted over time is still being experienced and will still.
There are characteristically more Perspectives of love depending on the functional activities that prevail in the destiny of existence and the thoroughfare of life but for the sake of this discussion there are three perspectives. These are: the Filial Perspectives or family love; the Social Perspective otherwise known as Social Love and the Romantic Perspective or intimate.
The Filial Perspective is a special bond and attachment emanating from the family membership-a sense and attraction of belonging to a common unit. This is the family love and craving for family positional.
The Social Perspective is the Social love and refers to a superficial relationship that exists between prominent personalities in social classes and their ardent followers. It is characteristic of fanaticism and is often a reminiscent of The Social Submission Moment                      
The Romantic Perspective is the dimension that focuses on the love and intimate relationship between two parties that were otherwise strangers to each other and distance apart at heart that have been drawn together and are therefore intimate to each other  I therefore take the perspective of Romantic Love or the Intimate Love.Love, in its general aspect whichever the perspective, is usually a component of both the heart and the soul representing physical and spiritual aspects of Romance.As units representative of a BEING, the heart and , or soul, is usually an entity and a process that functions both as a unitary element and as well as having with it an ability of being nurtured,being nourished,being cherished,being guided or being killed.In this way it intuitively behaves and portrays its  human value with certain outward characteristics quite unique in Self.
One of these  Self nature and or characteristics is found in the quadrangle. That is to say that the heart desires,dictates,demands and drives.As it is being nourished so it demands gifts and such receiving activities including gifts,presents,donations and social sacrifice.As  the heart longs for what is happiness so it desires to get and seek for it as it dominates in the cycle of love and becomes dominant and possessive.So great that it hates rivalry and challenges from the sideshows and loathes distance.As it craves for a belonging and a longing for possession so it dictates who should provide for what it considers personal and necessary ,how it desires for the longing and provisions to be available and justifies itself on why and for what purpose. It finally seeks to identify with its complementary heart or partner as it identifies itself in a very unique way with a complementary partner and ends up cutting itself its own niche or a territory it will protect to the pain of death and so does it have the drive to demand and be demanded for.
Love behaves  like a soul with feelings,desires and drives while as a being in its element as a heart it demands direction,among other things.The heart and soul are therefore components of love that each contributes in a very unique way to Loves well-being.
Labour of Love
The heart and soul labour together to sustain love,cement its successes and cherishes its negative threshold.The heart and soul needs nourishment,needs care,needs protection and assurance of security,needs growth and responsibility and finally needs a re-birth. This is the sole purpose of Labour of and for love.
Labour of love is what is done for the sake of love.it is an investment in the direction of love that is expected to be self perpetuating and to be repaid handsomely in a term to come is it yields dividends of love.It requires self sacrifice and self denial as well as taking risk for the sake of affection.This is usually done by the initiator or sustainer of love.
To labour for love means  the repayment situation which is characterized by self denial and high affinity for pleasant reactions on the part of the recipient in the form of appreciation and acceptance and comes as a result of The Romantic Submission Moment  already discussed in another article.Both labouring for love and of love are the result of attaining climax of Romantic Socialization after successful completion of the three stages that leads to The Romantic Submission as the distance and anxiety are evidently minimized to zero tolerance as the partners have finally been drawn together as acquaintances and are no longer strangers.
Labouring for love is always one of the social aspects and perspective of Timology as a Social Change Process and is one of the important basic element of existence.The greatest contribution to human happiness has always been the ability to meet the desires of the heart hence the saying ''Follow your Heart''
How do partners labour for and of love?
This is usually done through soul-searching,romantic  exploration,self denial,enduring the pain of love,done by both involved partners as well as giving a chance for the expression of characteristics of love.  Some of the romantic encounters are both sweet and nourishing at the same time bitter and challenging that the pain of labouring for love is the climax of The Romantic Quigmire which explains the reaction of losers as they attempt to justify their loses at a point in time.
So what do you have to say?

The Discussion

Contribution by Elsie Njeri  Saturday 29/01/2011

Anyone who can romance is definitely a person who have enjoyed the benefit of being romanced or has a want to be romanced,an aspect of, you can only give what you have. Its serenading of each other, moving at the space of the one you are romancing,take the example

for a suckling mother caressing and speaking softly to her baby. She is speaking to a slow learner a language that gets their attention thus making learning interesting.its speaking to your customer in a way that makes them feel special and wanted thus making them to continue coming.its art to be learnt for its an important aspect of life.romancing is not just intimacy,it broader than that.

over to you vin

Thanks for your contribution Elsie.With reference to your point of view of romance and anyone who can romance expressed herein,may I focus on a real experience,especially a love affair.My understanding of Romance is that I consider it  something or a touch of love remarkable or worth describing as being romantic.Put in another way,and I agree with you,is that a romantic person is such a visionary person having ideas,feelings,desires,passion or otherwise,remote from experience and real life given to ordinary romance. Therefore,a person who can romanticize,is one who will use warm and kind feelings in a romantic way,or would make romance,or will make romantic style in expressing feelings.From this then without any prejudice,may I put your feelings under Romantic Perspective (Intimate love ) which is one of the three perspectives considered under The Labour of Love 

Your example of a suckling mother is an expression of Filial Perspective of love which is a delightful or lovable encounter between initial lovers that have graduated into husband and wife wth the product of their love as children

Romantic Perspective looks at intimate love as a warm and kind feelings expressed between two persons that were initially strangers and alien to their hearts,for the purpose and intent of sexual possesion or desires usually laboured through kissing,caressing,fondling,hugging or smooching.Its departure from the two other perspectives ( Filial Perspective-Family Love and Social Perspective-Social Love expressed as fanaticism or patriotism),is that there is a sexual consumation of love.

Well,I intend to take the Romatnic Perspective to build my article.

Over to you Elsie!

Sent: Sun, January 30, 2011 12:50:13 PM

at least we have finally a defined perpective........is romance not like a vehicle that helps you get there,anyway?in style?majestically?its defined by intention either just to conquer or acquire for genuine reason(true love) or selfish reason(lust) the high the value the well equipt is the conqueror.when the stakes are high we take no chances we prepare.and when it matters to us we take care of every step This takes me to the argument whats the difference between LOVE and ROMANCE?

 waiting

Thanks dear

First I welcome your question whats the difference between LOVE and ROMANCE?

To start with Love may I say that,this is a feeling or a delight or a desire that a person has.Love is more intimate and touches the heart and involves enjoyment by both parties involved.Love is that activity given for the pleasure of giving and not receiving back  and not for its stake.Love is laboured for and labourer enjoys doing what she or he is doing for the sake of the loved one and remains hard-put even to the outside pressures,challenges or influence hence the saying,love is blind or love knows no cultural barrier.Love means doing things for the sake of your sweetheart all in the name of love.So love is an affiliated feeling that surpasses intuition and reasoning. 

Romance on the other hand when I take it deeply, is the personification of love.it is like a cupid.It may refer to real experience of love,especially,a love affair considered to be remarkable or worthy of description.Romance is the product or outcome of a love affair.What is experienced as a result of loving experiences.

In art and literature and music,Romance may refer to a story or novel of adventure,or a love story,especially one in which the events are quite untrue or unlike real life,or a class of literature consisting of such stories.It is marked by feelings elicited to the audience rather than by intellect,preferring grandeur,passion,informal beauty,to order and proportion(opposite of classic and classical piece) From the work of romantic poets like Shelley or Keats,may I infer that a person with romantic ideas,is a visionary person who knows what he is looking for in a lover and plays the cupid to win a loved one.From these,may I infer that Romance is a form of real experience of ideas,feelings,passions and desires that are remote from ordinary experience or real life given to love.Romance is therefore visionary  intentions and activities while love is feelings To this extent it is right and I justify your feeling that Romance is like a vehicle which a lover uses to reach the heart of the loved one.

What do you say?